Ta Da!

I had a mini epiphany today.

The more I meet people I knew as a teen, the more I realize why moving "home" is so tough.
My 10 year reunion that went on last summer w/o me got me thinking the same way-

Out we go into the world, to 'make something of ourselves'. By the world's standards, I might have been too young or barefoot & pregnant. But Brett & I were working toward eternity, not acclaim. But when you're facing the scrutiny and worldly critique of peers and past, we still want their respect & envy- just a little bit. Or, thinking back on old crushes, maybe a lot a bit.

But as I answered pointed questions as vaguely as possible, part of me wanted to shake them and say, "I had it! Don't assume or guess on my 'success' by what you think you see right now."
Other times I've been up front with my situation, and the awkward silences and embarrassed and pitying looks that follow are just as frustrating.

I think that'll be one of my challenges, overcoming the single mom stereotype and getting over the silly desire for others to see and admire my accomplishments (as minor as others might think them).

My Hero

DC and Marvel, super heroes and the debate of which is the greatest has been an American past time for decades. At least it has for us geeks.  My dad was born the same year as Superman and always felt a certain affinity towards the icon. More recently there has been a huge revival if you will, of the comic book stars in Hollywood. Incredibles, Fantastic Four, X Men, Superman, Wolverine, Green Lantern, Hulk, Green Arrow, Iron Man, Batman...
My house is the same. I enjoy the stories and the kids are crazy about super powers. We've often talked about super people, super powers, and how to get them. One of the many lessons of a super hero's life is that with power comes responsibility. But what about when you have NO super powers?
 In my discussions with Shane, we have decided the best kind of super hero so far isn't 'super' at all. Iron Man, Green Arrow, Batman & Robin. They aren't aliens, no radio-activity involved, no strange genetic mutations or scientific experiments. Their 'super powers' are things like bravery, education & brains, dedication, honor, friends and purpose. (and a lot of money, granted)
Wouldn't it be awesome if, instead of emphasizing super strength, we lauded super patience? Instead of flight, we saw support enthusiasm or positive outlooks. Laser eyes were beat out by eyes that could see a need and supply it.

How can YOU be someone's super hero this week?